|
I think the pain of loosing someone makes the joy of having some one that much sweeter. I only had 3 boyfriends prior to finding hubby. One was abusive, one was puppy love, and the other where I was actually engaged for a while was obvious that it would not work. We couldn't even settle on a date let alone any other plans about where, how to marry or where to settle either. Logic tends to rule me more than emotion sometimes I think.
In my relationship with hubby I came very very close to loosing him by death - to just barely taste that kind of loss makes having him still sweeter and I am just simply thankful for every day when we are together.
The pain of loss only makes the joy of gaining another sweeter.
__________________
"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma. 
|