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Intersting article. The only thing that it didn't touch on as much as it should have is not so much the first person male perspective towards women, but how men feel about their peers approval of women they are dating. I think that isa more important and flexible point than the idea that men want porn star girlfriends.
I was with an extremely attractive and alluring woman for 2 years. Though I loved her for who she was, there was a very intense physical attraction, and I was turned on quite often just by walking into a room with her and seeing every guy turn his head and look at her. It felt good to know that I was the guy who came in with her.
To that effect, I think this article holds some merit, but it did not touch on it. The first gal I was ever with was the antithesis of the shaved/waxed/facial pornstar type, and I was just as turned on when it came to sex.
What the article touches on lightly is the actual act of sex. The whole watching porn to learn moves. One might learn moves themselves, just by trying, but if not for porn, I might not have ever learned my favorite position.
For what its worth, porn is no replacement for actual sex. I might watch porn while I'm cranking it, but I can't actually orgasm unless I'm thinking about my ex-g/f. Thats a frustration in itself, but it is me thinknig about *real* sex, not the pixelated variety.
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