|
They're are a couple of things to say in response to this.
1. is your wife on Birth Control? Some BC medications lower sex drive. If this may be the case, doctors can prescribe alternative BC's that will restore a better hormonal balance for your wife. In fact, look for the recent thread that mentions that here in tilted sexuality.
2.Have you spoken to your wife about this in the form of a mature conversation? Lowered sex drive in either sex can often be brought on by external factors such as stress or drastic life changes. If you two recently married, then this may be considered a drastic change from the norm. you stated "....and not happily so". are you aluding to other problems beyond sex life?
3. Did your wife previously have a large sex drive? has it diminished or is it consistent with before marriage?
All these will help us get a better understanding of what may be happening.
I'd think you and your wife need a long but mature talk about what's going on that's devoid of blame from both sides and aims to better understand the current circumstances. rememeber that communication in a relationship is key.
__________________
Seen on an employer evaluation:
"The wheel is turning but the hamsters dead"
____________________________
Is arch13 really a porn diety ? find out after the film at 11.
-Nanofever
|