If life and love was this easy, everyone wouldnt be single.
Thereby defeating your whole concept of meeting everyone at once.
There's people out there who know what they want, and they sure as hell aint settling for anything else. From both sides.
And any act you do may be lovely for 'getting some' but really is it gonna make you any better? no. I hope the vast majority of people are hoping for something more than just plain sex, and if they are, any act thats put on is surely gonna wear thin.
If people are themselves, theyll find people. The reason some guys dont get all the 'hot chicks' is because theyre not each others 'type'.. as in they wouldnt be friends or in the same job or social circles. And not everyone thats pretty is 'out of your league' etc etc. Coz when it comes down to it, your personality will rule supreme. Coz it doesnt matter what you looked like when everything starts going south at 30.
In conclusion, maybe this is the placebo story that everyone needs to feel. Maybe everyone wants some 'surefire plan'.
But im betting its the placebo effect at work, after all, whats gonna make anyone more confident than having THE SECRET STRATEGY TO SUCCESS? Thats right. Get out there, and cut the crap.
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