Thanks rainheart 
 
 
I'm really not that bitter.  I'm just letting out my frustrations I suppose!  
I know the next time I'm asked for a number I'll give it.  And yeah, I don't think anyone would meet somebody in that situation.  I know I wouldnt if some guy asked me to show up at a coffee shop or whatever!   
Where's professor Plan9?  This is all fantastic 
