sounds to me like you should just give the wacky honesty ploy a shot: it took you some time to get over the breakup, during which you were occasionally a prick, but now you've healed up & come to your senses and are pretty sure you would value her a lot a friend.
worth a try, and a lot less confusing for both of you than trying to figure out what each other is feeling without talking about it....
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