It is most certainly mood driven for me. Sometimes I simply need/want that orgasm....now! And at those times, I'm not certain I fantasize about anything.
But then I have those times where I am fantasizing about my sweetie and THEN I start to get aroused and I can think of nothing BUT him during the whole time I am pleasuring myself.
Of course, there are those times when I WANT him to walk in on me unexpectedly and "catch" me...and watch...and then join in after I have reached one orgasm...
