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Originally posted by Mr Mephisto
If I understand what you're saying (ie, "once a cheat, always a cheat"), then you are talking out of your ass.
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OK - I was about to jump on you like you did <b>sillygirl</b>, but I re-read your posts, and, since I realize you have a non-objective, personal stake in this, I'll soften my response.
I can only speak from over 30 years experience since I started dating, but in those 30 years the only people I've known that cheated <b>only once</b> just hadn't got around to the second time yet. But they all did. eventually. Male; female - no difference. It's just like guys who beat up their wives - it never happens just once. I think it's a state of mind; a lifestyle choice borne of selfishness, low self-esteem, and an inability of some people to respect another person above their own short-term desires.
And yes - I've made mistakes in my kife - some of them not deserving of forgiveness, either.
If that's talking out of my ass, then cover your nose - I might not be done yet.
As always - Your results may vary.