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Originally posted by sillygirl
I guess that my question to the guys is:
Would you rather be told, and have her end up being faithful the whole marriage, or not be told, and find out later on in the marriage when she gets drunk at a party without you and cheats again?
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I would want to know once it would have happened. Better "late" than never I would also prefer rather than the possibility of it happening again as a wedded couple. I would have addressed the situation, talked to her and see if we both wanted to continue with the marriage plans.
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Originally posted by sillygirl
She has screwed around on almost all her boyfriends. She has only known this guy for a total of 3 months now ... and while he and I were talking, I found out that he really didn't know much of anything about her past.
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Personally, this is way to quick of a realtionship to even think about getting married. True that some people find their true love easier than others ... but if he (they?) don't know too much of each others past, that doesn't look good.
Best of luck to you and your friendships.