I'm usually the one who posts unpopular opinions on threads like this, so why change now?
So, how exactly was it
your business?
According to you, the female was your best friend, not the guy. So you not only betrayed her, but also probably planted a seed of doubt or mistrust in his mind, risked their marriage and also talked to others about the whole situation, behind both their backs.
Does this make you "feel better about yourself?" Do you feel you stand on the "high moral ground?"
What was the point? What benefit did it do to anyone?
All you've done is probably lost a friend, pissed off a friend's husband, put a marriage at risk, shown you are untrustworthy, shown you are a gossip, displayed bad taste and are the type to seek justification for your actions from complete strangers on the internet.
My wife cheated on me before we got married. I found out. It hurt (especially if you knew who it was with), but I got over it. We both love each other. So, would you have "helped out" in my situation?
I can't stand meddling busy bodies like you.
/rant off
There you go! Unpopular, and flame-worthy post.
Mr Mephisto