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Originally posted by alfred183
No way! Martin is one of my best friends as of lately
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True which is why i was mad you were 'here's the real story'ing my thread...oh well, as long as I'm faster than you at autox i won't demonize you :-p
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Like I said before (when I was edited), they were on a break when all this went down, and while it might still be wrong for her to not disclose it to him, you can't really call it "cheating" IMO
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Again, no offense here, but you're definitely not a neutral party...she's told you everything from square one...you knew about this whole thing, what, the day it happened? two or three weeks before I did? I even vented to you that I was suspicious about it and you didn't tell me anything. Meh! towards you for that one. And I'm sure you've been listening to her tell you how much she hates this thread and why since I started it!
And to put this 'break' thing to rest AGAIN, even if we were unclear how we stood before i went to CA, she called me the day i got there and made a boyfriend-like request of me, making me lose several nights of sleep, and tell everyone who would listen (even strangers at the truck stop i was at all night smoking) how pissed off i was that someone had messed with my girlfriend.
Therefore it was cheating in my mind...she was asking me for the kind of emotional support you get from a boyfriend (which i found out later was being supplimented, but still)...which is all that matters, because how I feel is all that matters for me to get over it.
Thanks for all the advice guys. 98transam, interesting angle, i'm interested in your long reply...feel free to pm it to me if you've still got it typed.