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Originally posted by Harshaw
I'm getting over a pretty bad case of one-ittis. It wasn't until recently that I talked to some radom stranger for 4 hours that I realized if I found 2 girl I could talk to for hours, I could probably find 100.
What I am wondering is this, where do you meet people?
I am not a bar person, there must be a better way to meet people. But since leaving college, my supply of new people has all but dried up. Where I work we have mostly married people. Is there even a point to go to online dating things (match.com, yahoo) do people meet other people that way? Where do you all meet people?
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Hershaw,The best place to meet women is EVERYWHERE!!! That's why I said always be prepared in your appearance when you go out. Of course you could go to bars and clubs, but I personally don't really like to go there unless I'm just looking for a easy hook-up. The bar scene is really fake and basically if your not attractive then your not getting any. Most girls at bars are not going to spend the time to let you work your skills. If you do get that chance though, it should be very easy to seal the deal. You increase your chances of success if you go to places where there isn't that much competition. Grocery stores, shopping malls, health club, coffee shop, the possibilities are endless. You just need to start making the effort to meet them. If you are afraid of rejection, just remember rejection is inevitable, but with every rejection you are THAT much closer to finding the one that wont reject ya.
Get pimpin Hershaw
