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I have cheated. I cheated on my 8th grade girlfriend...with her best friend. That was a messy one. And I cheated on onodrim about 3 years ago.
I really think it's just a matter of getting to know what you want. Especially when you're younger. I think there's a HUGE difference between cheating on someone when in high school and cheating on someone whilst in your 20s and above. The relationships you're in (theoretically) are much more adult later in life and have much more emotional involvement. Also, as you progress through life you get a better idea of what you want in a mate. That said, one must also be realistic and face the fact that all guys want to have sex with pretty much every woman they see. It's just a matter of having the maturity to turn down the opportunity if it arises when you're committed to someone else.
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