I am suprised no one has addressed the idea that the girls mentioned by Sun Tzu's first post is gay. If in fact being gay is genetic (which I believe it is) then of course she has a higher chance than most of being gay herself. Her gay father did not "make her" that way. He may have just made it easier for her to accept her own sexuality.
As for adoption, absolutely yes! Gay people have a huge burden to face in society -- not being easily accepted. I do not know a gay man or woman that wishes that burden upon their children. They desire their children, just like straight parents, to grow up happy & healthy, and to be productive members of society. Not one of my gay friends (and yes, I have many) have raised their children to be gay themselves.
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