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RelaX · 10-12-2003, 03:52 PM

It seems to me that telekinetic is one of 'those' guys. Guys that get taken advantage of because they put girls on pedestals. Really dude, like my dad always says: "There are more girls than bell towers".

Just let her know that no matter how 'painfully' the subject is to her, it hurt you and if she REALLY wants to be with you then SHE needs to come up with ideas on how to make it work. See how much SHE cares.

Because it seems to me that she's one of those girls that love attention and drama, the 'spoiled' type. Personally I've met a couple of em (my sis is actually one) and I wouldn't touch them with a 10 foot pole. Pay attention here, girls like this WILL NOT BE THERE FOR YOU when things get bad. Maybe I'm wrong, but I fear that you just need to move on if you're really looking for something long term.

And you may need to watch alfred183, he sounds like he's ready to demonize you and pick up the pieces with the girl when you're gone.

Then again, maybe I'm wrong and alfred183 is a her brother and AngelHands is so traumatized by the events that she can not bear to think of it without significant emotional trauma and telekinetic is a jealous sob who just wants to make a poor girl feel guilty for lying.

And maybe pigs can fly, they just chose not to en mass.

10-12-2003, 03:52 PM	#59 (permalink)
RelaX Follower of Ner'Zhul Location: Netherlands	It seems to me that telekinetic is one of 'those' guys. Guys that get taken advantage of because they put girls on pedestals. Really dude, like my dad always says: "There are more girls than bell towers". Just let her know that no matter how 'painfully' the subject is to her, it hurt you and if she REALLY wants to be with you then SHE needs to come up with ideas on how to make it work. See how much SHE cares. Because it seems to me that she's one of those girls that love attention and drama, the 'spoiled' type. Personally I've met a couple of em (my sis is actually one) and I wouldn't touch them with a 10 foot pole. Pay attention here, girls like this WILL NOT BE THERE FOR YOU when things get bad. Maybe I'm wrong, but I fear that you just need to move on if you're really looking for something long term. And you may need to watch alfred183, he sounds like he's ready to demonize you and pick up the pieces with the girl when you're gone. Then again, maybe I'm wrong and alfred183 is a her brother and AngelHands is so traumatized by the events that she can not bear to think of it without significant emotional trauma and telekinetic is a jealous sob who just wants to make a poor girl feel guilty for lying. And maybe pigs can fly, they just chose not to en mass. __________________ The most likely way for the world to be destroyed, most experts agree, is by accident. That's where we come in; we're computer professionals. We cause accidents. - Nathaniel Borenstein Last edited by RelaX; 10-12-2003 at 03:57 PM..