Ah, sorry, I lost touch with the initial goal of this topic while thinking about my own situation. I'd also like to apologize for assuming it had to with getting the ladies to look at him, he never stated that so I made an ass out of me.
Settling is when you stay with a lesser of options, in your own opinion, right? I wasn't encouraging him to settle, I was offering support for a different option. If what I said makes this option more appealing to him than his intial chosen option, he can change what he feels he needs to do acordingly, if not then he can merely ignore me. I think it is more important that he is happy with himself than being stronger and leaner. But again, my whole concept was written with the thought that he wanted to gain muscle for looks, which was wrong of me.
I feel that you have tried to make my choice look like one of lazieness, which it wasn't. I am happy with how I look and feel strength and muscle-wise.
Last edited by Neato; 10-12-2003 at 02:41 PM..
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