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I'm with Forks, man. I'd tell you to give her the pole to your face, as well. Hell, I'd say it with her in the room, if your view of this is the raw deal of what went down.
When I was younger, I dated a girl who tried pulling the same shit on me. She'd go and visit this other guy, and get this - she'd TELL ME ABOUT IT - but not that they were fucking. Just that they were hanging out, of course. Except she'd blow off plans we'd have to go out there and she'd unexpectedly spend the night. And later she'd come back and tell me how great a guy he is, and how smart and strong he is, and sometimes she'd slip and say what great massages he gives, and then she'd clam up for awhile.
Finally I called her on the carpet about it because I was sick of it, and she tried to come up with another good lie, but it wasn't working so she confessed the whole thing. I dropped her on the spot because it's absolutely wrong to treat someone that way, and I certainly won't accept it for myself.
Turns out she called the other guy later and confessed to him about me - apparently she was trying to keep the exact details of her relationship with us secret from the other, even though she and I had been together longer. Anyway, he dumped her on the phone that night. She actually had the nerve to call me and cry about it right after.
So, I don't know how similar our stories are, dude. But if she's anything like MY ex, leave her for the fucking vultures, man. You don't need the garbage she heaps on you, and she's DEFINITELY not worth it if she puts your ass in THERAPY. Think about it.
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Right next to the mashed potatoes.
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