her thread obviously doesn't tell the whole story, it seems like she has a problem with being forthcoming with information. I'm not sure this is a trust issue as much as an honesty one.
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Along every stage of my slow discovery process, every time i would find something out *always from a source other than her* she would tell me I knew everything. There were about four different times where I would find out something new, and she would tell me I knew everything.
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Sounds like she holds back a lot of information. This is the same as lying, because it's warping the truth she's presenting.
I think cheating is a sign of weakness, it's deplorable, but in some cases forgivable. It is possible to work through it and salvage the relationship... but NEVER forget about it.
My bet is this could happen again, and you'd be lucky if you ever found out about it (from her at least). In my response to her thread (since I can't post in the ladies lounge), YOU HAVE TO EARN TRUST IF YOU WANT TO BE TRUSTED.