Having kids has only changed the time of day we have sex. For a while now, we have a "mommy daddy time to relax" that we do about once a day. We go into our bedroom, close the door, and let the kids play. We definatly keep an ear out for the kids, and many times we just relax. Just lay togther and if the fun happens, it happens. Our 4 year old will either play in the living room or in her bedroom and the 1.5 year old is in the living room (we have gates up) which is baby/todler proof.
At night is a different story, bed time is usually 8:30 and anytime after that is ours to do what we want with.
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