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Have a kid changed our sex life. I had a c-section and the scar even was sensitive for a couple years even. For the first while after having her I always had an ear out for even a whimper while we were having sex. I felt guilty for having pleasure while my child "needed" me if she was crying. It's a natural response. Eventually you learn to balance things. If you don't you're whole relationship will go down hill and it hurts the kids in the long run.
With kids around the house you have to work harder and watch for opportunities to play but otherwise it hasn't hurt our sex life. We send her off to a sitters about every other weekend or so for one evening so we have have "Mom and Dad fun." It makes a big difference to have that time.
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