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Well, I'd say most of the time I think about Secret, my boyfriend. If it's not him, then its usually a fantasy involving people that I find attractive. Usually I like to imagine I'm somplace nicer than a dorm room , like in a fancy resort, or in some exotic waterfall, or even just on a nice big comfy bed . Also, there's often some story involved, something simple, but more than just, now I'm having sex with someone. I've never just thought about complete strangers. Although sometimes, like Rubyee, I just focus on myself and what feels good. Whatever works for you is the best way to go.

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"The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides"
-Carl Sagan