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Originally posted by alfred183
telekinetic, I think you should tell everyone the whole story if you want acurate responses. Like, for example, were you guys on a break at that point?
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Not as far as I knew...we had been on-again, off-again for a while, but if we were on break, why would she call me in california to cry to me about what happened at the party, and why would I have wanted to come home to comfort her? Whether things were ambiguous before I left or not (which I'm not sure of one way or the other, from her perspective) the fact that I lost three nights of sleep wanting to come home, make sure she was ok, and beat the crap out of the guy that messed with her should have said something about whether I cared for her or not.
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I'm not sure if it's still cheating if you're on a break. I don't know all the details, so I'm just giving an example...
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OK, so give her the benefit of the doubt for a second...assume she thought we were on break (I did not). She still lied to me repeatedly for several weeks about everything!
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Did she really tell you to shut up and forget about it or is that just what you decyphered from her words?
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We talked about the situation, she said she was willing to help me do 'whatever' to get over it, but she never wanted to talk about it again, and every time I tried to breach the topic, she'd shut down and ignore me and make it obvious that she thought I was being mean.