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#1 You would have a hard time trusting her should she eventually leave her husband. Simply because you would know she was willing to do it to him - why not to you?
#2 Statistically these types of relationships usually end within 3-4 years and primarily because they've been found out. The chances of this being a lasting relationship and you marrying her is slim.
#3. People in married relationships that start "dating" other people often will stay married longer than they probably would have without the affair. It's a matter of having your cake and eat it too. Why would she leave and go through the turmoil of divorce when she can still have you as a friend or maybe even lover.
I suggest keeping it cool until she does get divorced.
That said - I don't know if I could resist the temptation to have a relationship like that.
On the positive side - You know you don't have to worry about being Stuck in a relationship - She already has a guy.
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