The only time I really didn't want to have sex was when she was in her last couple of months. It got to be a pain in the ass as she couldn't be in certain positions, etc., and she wasn't feeling particularly attractive or horny. As to kids stopping you having sex or affecting the amount you have sex, it only happens if you let it happen. When the kids are very, very young it can just because they have needs that have to be met at that very minute. However once they are just a little bit older, you can easily schedule around it. Now that my kids are 4 and 7, it is extremely easy. We have lots of things for them to do around the house, and they know they are going to get severely punished when mommy and daddy are back in our room with the door closed. Yes, it can remove some of your ability to do it wherever (i.e. in the living room), but you would be surprised what you can accomplish if you just work at it.
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