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Thoughts when masturbating
Last night I mentioned to Lebell that when I masturbate I almost always enjoy fantasizing about a real person (him) more than thinking about an unknown. I also enjoy reading stories that stimulate my thoughts, then putting myself and him in the situation in my head. However, it is very rare when I fanatasize about an unknown man or porn.
I am wondering if this is a male/female thing -- or just me. What do you think? What do you fantasize about when masturbating? What gets you most excited?
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