So...this thread has been very helpful for me...I don't think i'll break up with her just based on the responses, but it at least lets her know that I'm not ridiculous for taking this stuff seriously...she's now said she's willing to do anything to patch up the relationship, including paying out-of-pocket for couples counselling.
To answer some questions, we were kind of thrown together quickly by some wierd circumstances a couple months before this happened....there is a lot more drama in this relationship than i even want to get into here....
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