I'm still a kid, 22, no kids myself, and my closest friends are all the same; without dependants.
Whenever I go out with these friends, there always walks by a Hot Momma ( see: Milf
). Often enough their kids are in tow, or there is a tell-tale sign that they have kids. When this occurs, and I, or we as a whole begin to ogle, I point out how it would be a great bag because their proof of kids shows that they have sex or had sex.
What i'm curious about, and question you parents:
At any point in after having kids, did you have less of a sexual attraction for your significant other? Did your children keep you from enjoying sex? At any point during your parenthood, did your child(ren)'s awareness to you as parents keep your from having or enjoying sex in scenarios where you might have enjoyed a night of getting it on?
All input that is volunteered is greatly appreciated. :-)