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Originally posted by yournamehere
Okay - I just deleted 20 minutes' worth of a post, but figured scathing sarcasm might not be in your best interest right now (damn - and it was some of my best work).
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mmmm...sarcasm...hehe
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Instead, I'l just point out what I thought was a very telltale sign:
You mentioned <i>"I had forgiven her for being lonely while I was gone, it bothered me but, whatever..."</i>
Man - you were gone for <i>a freakin' week.</i> - it's not like you deserted her. And consider the irony - <i>you</i> were the only one alone that week!
And wasn't she originally supposed to come with you? That's the impression I got - that she made up that "personal crisis" story to stay with her new fuck buddy.
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No, she wasn't included in the plans...we had transportation + hotel reservations a month before I met her. And the crisis was real, some guy messed with her while she was drunk at a party. And I was alone by choice...I was wingmanning for my buddy with the bikini babes on the beach, wishing she was there or I was with her.
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News Flash - <b>It's not your fault that she cheated on you</b>
Stop beating yourself up over it.
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Not really beating myself up so much...I was just wanting to try and make it work, if possible.
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I think everything that needs to be said has been said in this thread, and none better than by <b>rainheart</b>.
Like someone suggested, you need to mentally and emotionally bitch-slap her to the curb. (not physically, of course)
Regroup and move on - better things await you, my friend.
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