First time? I didn't even cum. Of course, my girlfriend was also a virgin, so neither of us really knew what we were doing. As I recall, after we had sex for a while, we gave up, and I fingered her to orgasm. That was it.
Now, after a lot more experience... I'm actually bringing DOWN the time it takes me to get there. I can make myself come in a minute flat with my hand, but I find it much harder when someone else is doing it.
Don't get me wrong; it feels better when someone else does it. I love having sex, getting head, whatever. It just takes longer. I can't explain it. Whatever.
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