I believe that the only reason for a relationship to continue after infidelity is if both parties are not only truly sorry for what they did but are willing to work towards fixing the issues that allowed it to happen in the first place - they need to face them head-on at any time and both have to be completely committed to not letting it happen again. They need to work at rebuilding trust.
To be honest, it sounds like you are willing to do this but your girlfriend isn't.
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