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yournamehere · 10-09-2003, 10:32 AM

Okay - I just deleted 20 minutes' worth of a post, but figured scathing sarcasm might not be in your best interest right now (damn - and it was some of my best work).

Instead, I'l just point out what I thought was a very telltale sign:
You mentioned "I had forgiven her for being lonely while I was gone, it bothered me but, whatever..."

Man - you were gone for a freakin' week. - it's not like you deserted her. And consider the irony - you were the only one alone that week!
And wasn't she originally supposed to come with you? That's the impression I got - that she made up that "personal crisis" story to stay with her new fuck buddy.
News Fash - It's not your fault that she cheated on you
Stop beating yourself up over it.

I think everything that needs to be said has been said in this thread, and none better than by rainheart.

Like someone suggested, you need to mentally and emotionally bitch-slap her to the curb. (not physically, of course)

Regroup and move on - better things await you, my friend.

10-09-2003, 10:32 AM	#18 (permalink)
yournamehere Invisible Location: tentative, at best	Okay - I just deleted 20 minutes' worth of a post, but figured scathing sarcasm might not be in your best interest right now (damn - and it was some of my best work). Instead, I'l just point out what I thought was a very telltale sign: You mentioned <i>"I had forgiven her for being lonely while I was gone, it bothered me but, whatever..."</i> Man - you were gone for <i>a freakin' week.</i> - it's not like you deserted her. And consider the irony - <i>you</i> were the only one alone that week! And wasn't she originally supposed to come with you? That's the impression I got - that she made up that "personal crisis" story to stay with her new fuck buddy. News Fash - <b>It's not your fault that she cheated on you</b> Stop beating yourself up over it. I think everything that needs to be said has been said in this thread, and none better than by <b>rainheart</b>. Like someone suggested, you need to mentally and emotionally bitch-slap her to the curb. (not physically, of course) Regroup and move on - better things await you, my friend. __________________ If you want to avoid 95% of internet spelling errors: "If your ridiculous pants are too loose, you're definitely going to lose them. Tell your two loser friends over there that they're going to lose theirs, too." It won't hurt your fashion sense, either. Last edited by yournamehere; 10-09-2003 at 10:40 AM..