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Originally posted by little limey
Wow collide. You totally said it. I'm glad to know that someone's able to be intimate and be in a relationship. Thanks for sharing. I thought I was just strange to not be able to turn off my feelings when it comes to physical intimacy.
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I do understand what you are saying. I more or less got into the lifestyle for hubby. The matter of intimacy was one thing that did bother me to begin with. Those of us in the lifestyle get pretty close with those that we meet on a regular basis. There is concern and a family feeling there that I would never have expected. It's a different level of intimacy and affection. There is always the affection of my husband even when we are playing - we're just giving each other pleasure in a different way. With the girls that I enjoy playing with regularly we have a relationship of sorts. The thing about our lifestyle is that it's understood that no one will leave their partner for someone else in the lifestyle. I hope this makes any sense. I find it hard to put into words how this actually feels.
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