Well, I talked to her tonight after seeing a few of the responses...she said that even though it will make her feel like shit, because she feels shitty every time she thinks about it (classic female, eh Rodney?), she'd rather feel like shit and have me talk to her than me not tell her 'everything'...so I guess that makes me hopeful...I told her cuz she's on the board and would see the thread...She says I misunderstood her the last time we talked: when she had said she never wanted to talk or hear or think about it again, she meant 'unless I want to talk about it.' Somehow. I don't understand it, but I guess it's a step in the right direction. Thanks guys.
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