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Harshaw · 10-08-2003, 08:35 PM

Damn Tele, you and I should form a "Guys who like to be doormats" club. She used you, and it doesn't sound like she is very sad about it.
Did she ever apologize? How much remorse did she show? Was this 3 years ago and she begged your forgiveness. Or did this happen fairly recently?
I don’t believe cheating should be the end of a relationship if both people are willing to work it out. But the fact that you are spending money on a therapist instead of working it out with her seems like bad news. Telling you to get over it is really only a valid response if this is something that happened a long time ago that you have worked on.

10-08-2003, 08:35 PM	#5 (permalink)
Harshaw Is mad at you. Location: Bored in Sacramento	Damn Tele, you and I should form a "Guys who like to be doormats" club. She used you, and it doesn't sound like she is very sad about it. Did she ever apologize? How much remorse did she show? Was this 3 years ago and she begged your forgiveness. Or did this happen fairly recently? I don’t believe cheating should be the end of a relationship if both people are willing to work it out. But the fact that you are spending money on a therapist instead of working it out with her seems like bad news. Telling you to get over it is really only a valid response if this is something that happened a long time ago that you have worked on. __________________ This too shall pass.