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Or, say to her "if you don't have sex with me I'm going elsewhere".
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I think he should say it a bit nicer than that. Maybe the girlfriend isn't a prude, maybe she honestly isn't ready for sex yet. She can't help that any more than Battlefield can help wanting to have sex.
The best way to go about it isn't to say 'Give me sex or I'm outta here!'. Ask your girlfriend why she doesn't want sex, and if she simply wants more time you have to decide whether she is worth the wait. If she can't see herself ever having sex, if she just decides that it's not something she feels is necessary in a relationship, then you two have something that you can't compromise on (unless you have an open relationship, but I doubt that's the case?).
But on the other hand if she is simply a prude then break it off with her first and <i>then</i> visit your neighbour.