Hell, you aren't married, so it really isn't a big deal. Are you going to marry your girlfriend? Is she EVER going to have sex with you? If yes, when? How long are you going to wait for current girlfriend to unfreeze? Is she not going to have sex until married? What if the chemistry sexually is never right and you don't find out until after marriage? What happens a few years in when she wonders what she had missed out on and wants a taste?
I would say to GF - "hey, let's get married" because you can't be expected to not have sex for this long. Or, say to her "if you don't have sex with me I'm going elsewhere". Tell hot sex girl that you are so in to her and that you are going to gently break up with GF b/c you can't wait your whole life for miss ice princess. What if you die in a year? Won't you regret not having sex for two years? I would. Life is short. Don't get hooked to a prude. Live a little because you will regret it later if you don't believe me. Unless of course it is true love - you get married and live wonderful life - but put a one year from now limit on abstinance unless you want to explode...
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