I'm definately Bi. Even before I even considered the idea I had fun goofing off with my girl friends and kisses a couple. At the time I wasn't thinking of doing anything else and didn't consider it sexual.
Once hubby suggested the idea to me and eventually the opportunity arose to try it I loved it. I'm so bi since then. Been with about 8 other women.
Personally I think there's a lot of women out there who won't even consider it because of the social stigma that most religions put on that type of lifestyle. It takes actually trying it to know if you have the tendency I think.
It all started for me when we started swinging. In the first couple we started seeing the woman was bi curious but not always the first to move. Her hubby and I were playing and she and my hubby were taking a break and watching us - he encouraged her to come over and play and I just did what felt natural to me. All of my anxiety went out the window and I had a great time. The coolest of all was that it was with hubby and we've gotten to be friends with that couple too.
It's a powerful experience. Nothing like being with a man. It's more of a giving tender act. I have one friend who I love to play with when we all get together. She and I shower and all and kick the guys out. It's "girls time" and we've gotten to know eat other well. I personally think every woman should at least consider the idea. I didn't know what I was missing out on.
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