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Think about the person you'd like to be, and ask yourself what that man would do. You're the only person who can tell you what's right for you.
That said, I'm gonna give you my two cents anyhow.
You're trying to have your cake and eat it, too, and that never, ever turned out well. You want the great "I can see a future with this girl" relationship and you want the hot sex with the tasty neighbor. If the "no sex" clause in your relationship with your gf is a deal-breaker, have the balls to tell her so instead of going behind her back in a moment of weakness. And what do you think are the odds that the hot neighbor chick is going to be satisfied with no-strings-attached sex when you're done with her and go running back to the celibate girlfriend? What you're looking at here is a fantasy. The reality is you're either going to end up juggling two women who are both going to eat you alive when they find out the truth, or you're going to end up being That Guy, the one women all complain about who scoots as soon as he sees greener grass on the other side of the fence. Again, be the man you can look in the face in the mirror every morning.
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"If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing."
- Anatole France
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