To rock_bottom: it is okay to use gay tems among gays; kind of like when blacks use terms to speak amongst themselves. I'm a white guy who has nothing against blacks or gays, but I can't use the same terms. Why is it okay against your own (?), but not others? Is it that you don't respect each other to speak up? Be honest, please. And I'm not just speaking to gay people - why is it okay for black guys to call other black guys "niggers"? Isn't "nigger" supposed to be a derogatory term? If this is "supposed" to be so bad, why is it okay for one and not the other? Not that I'm looking for an excuse, I'd just as soon we all figure a way to get along. Is that posible?
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