As I told John, if I see an opportunity where I can impart some big sisterly advice I will. God knows I often wish I had someone older who had been through similar situations to guide me… And often she told me things I sure as hell didn't want to hear, but I always valued her opinion… If you want to tell me to fuck off and mind my own business that is certainly your perogative… Ultimately, as you mature and accept the responsibilities that come along with being an adult (when this happens, let me know what it's like, I still don't know), you will learn to trust your instincts but keep an open mind when others are trying to guide you…You are an adult and we will have to accept that you will (and should) make your own decisions… To tell you that even though you do make dumb decisions, and no doubt always will because you are a (last name removed), I trust that you will make the best decision for you. And even if you don't, you will learn from your mistakes… It sucks because I know I have to let you make mistakes, but I will always try to guide you away if I see a mistake coming. He doesn't think I should. He thinks I should let you live your life and keep out of it. Or course, I can't let that happen! :-) That's not in my nosy nature now is it!
>>>girlfriend was using email... maybe this was personal?
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