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Originally posted by Kaos
The Constant Reminder
Close to The Leech, The Constant Reminder will continually put herself down, talk bad about any flaw she can find about herself, and constantly needs to be complimented to counter every time she insults herself. Like the leech where if you want some independant time, or time out with the boys, it will only bring her a validation that what she thinks is true, and you will end up spending hours reminding her that her hips aren't too fat, her hair is fine, her boobs are perfect, blah blah blah
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I hate chicks like that. The ugly duck syndrome. You can tell them they're beautiful a thousand times and they'll either call you a liar or tell you you're just being nice to her. Compliments are shut down and if you ever dissagree with her or have something negative to say about her she acts like it's the end of the world. Sexist smeshist it has nothing to do with that characteristics are everywhere. It's not sexist to list them. Obviously if some people in here have had relationships like those before (mine was the leech) then it obviously has some truth to it. Same things could be said about men as well. No woman is perfect and it doesn't do it any justice to believe they are and say these men don't know what they are talking about. They didn't just bash women down they gave insight to the type of woman you might want to be with. Ultimately that decision is yours and yours alone but theres nothing wrong with a little guidance. I'm not a perfect man and I wouldn't want anyone to pretend like I was on some "if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all" philosophy. Just because you love someone for who they are doesn't mean you'll never have something bad to say about them. Real love is honesty....and being frank and realistic when need be.
Asta!!