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I don't recall ever witholding sex as punishment. I do remember times when I was very hurt or angry and turned him away because I hadn't resolved things yet and because of it wasn't in the mood at all. He's learned to give me a little space and talk over things more before suggesting sex.
I was raised to believe that witholding sex as a way of getting back at hubby was a low despicable act.
I have "rewarded" him for things but mostly its been in a way that he knows I wanted it anyway and I'm just making sure he knows how much I appreciate whatever it was that he did.
I don't think sex or anything else should be used to manipulate someone. Sex should be pleasure and an expression of love with your SO not a tool used for personal gain or punishment.
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