It's really a question of priorities. Is the only reason you're in a relationship to either not get laid or to get laid? The sex/no sex discussion is always such a hot issue, but is that the foundation of your relationship?
One of the primary regrets of my life is that I slept with my first girlfriend. If we had waited, we would be married. Instead, she had a miscarriage and our relationship was destroyed by the resulting miscommunication and anger among other things.
Sex is wonderful thing, but all the sex in the world can't replace the trust and communication that are needed to make a relationiship successful. If you're looking for a good longterm relationship, sex can sit on top of a solid relationship or get in the way of building one, but sex will never build a strong relationship.
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