I will chime in also...though late. I am adopted as well. In any case I feel for you and your situation as you want to connect but as everyone has already said...I would reccomend not sending any card or anything...unless it becomes absolutley dire and you cannot find out anything medically unless you do that. Secondly as I said I'm adopted and the truth is I think about who my real parents are but I know there is no way I will ever know. I'm actually asian and was from what I've heard basically abondoned...and considering that I know I will never know my real parents. Its certainly a bummer but I love the life I'm living now.
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