Tough question!
If she's flirting with you, I say flirt back. Flirting is just harmless fun, until one of the two of you makes a move. If she actually hits on you, then it's time for a gut-check.
Just how taken is she? Is there something going on which you don't know about - such as she's on the rocks with the guy or something? On the other hand, if there's nothing wrong in her relationship, then you really need to steer clear of this one; hitting on you would be an indicator that she'll cheat on her guy, and if she'll cheat on him, then she'd cheat on you too.
Like I said, tough call. If all you're looking for is a one-time hookup, then go after her when she hits on you. If, on the other hand, you're looking for something more, then you really need to talk to her and find out what her relationship status really is....then make your decision whether or not to pursue her further.
The girl in the pic is a hottie, so I can see where your dilemma comes from.
But don't forget that she is also dating your friend's brother.
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