I have only been in two sexual relationships because they lasted for a long time, and I find that I am changing a lot in this new one.
I my first relationship, I hated the idea of porn, and I wasn't too fond of the thought of my SO mastrubating, either. Why? Insecurities.
However, and I don't know what caused the change, but now I am pretty neutral on the idea. I sometimes search my SO's computer to see what he looked at because I am curious. But now, I find myself getting extremely aroused by it and sometimes taking matters into my own hands.
So my point: I think that porn will only bother you if you feel threatened and insecure with your relationship. If you find that you hate the fact that your SO looks at it, you need to look into yourself first.
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