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cherylcannady · 09-29-2003, 10:19 AM

I think I look at more porn than bigjule. I'm always suggesting that we rent movies or buy dirty magazines. I don't mind him looking at this stuff at all. It's not real. He knows it. I know it. And it's especially fun to play with porn together.

What I get really insecure about is cybersex. That's where I absolutely draw the line. With my last long term SO, he was addicted to cybersex. He had over a dozen "regulars" and it got to the point where he couldn't maintain an erection during the real thing. It just wasn't as fun and inventive as all the impossible things he could do online. Cybersex is right up there with cheating in real life. I'd cut off bigjule's face if he did. And besides. It's just not necessary. I'm all for three-somes.

09-29-2003, 10:19 AM	#12 (permalink)
cherylcannady Upright Location: Central Wis.	I think I look at more porn than bigjule. I'm always suggesting that we rent movies or buy dirty magazines. I don't mind him looking at this stuff at all. It's not real. He knows it. I know it. And it's especially fun to play with porn together. What I get really insecure about is cybersex. That's where I absolutely draw the line. With my last long term SO, he was addicted to cybersex. He had over a dozen "regulars" and it got to the point where he couldn't maintain an erection during the real thing. It just wasn't as fun and inventive as all the impossible things he could do online. Cybersex is right up there with cheating in real life. I'd cut off bigjule's face if he did. And besides. It's just not necessary. I'm all for three-somes. __________________ ~I wonder who I am today. Any ideas?