The sad fact is that sometimes you don't get over it. Once you learn to live with this fact; ie. accept that someone you love will not be with you anymore -you will become enlightened. This enlightenment is really a big whoop and over-rated... but it's there.
In other words, Life is a series of changes and there is no going back to fix any of the changes that have taken place. We just keep moving forward, lacking and wounded. Try to connect with someone else... whether it be a friend or another loved one.
If this doesn't make any sense -its because I found some kind bud that's been hiding in my jacket pocket for weeks. Yeah, you could also do the Dionysian thing too. But it's really a matter of personal choice.
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