I had a long lasting relationship that ended badly after college. I hated her guts for years after that. Time just passed, as it always does, and I (we) got a new perspective on things. I came to realize there was still a benefit to both of us to being friends, and now we are friends again. That took years, and there's really no way it could have happened any faster. I don't know of any way to make the pain go away in the short term. Just ride it out and try to find other ways to spend your time and get your mind off it.
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