I was desperately in love with this girl when I was in college. The relationship was intense sexually and emotionally. We lived together for 9 intense months. I left for the summer and was going to see her just about every week. She couldn't deal with the fact that I was going to be gone for the summer, so she went out and slept with a friend of mine. She broke up with me right afterward and didn't throw it in my face (I found out about it in a roundabout way). I thought I was going to die. I just went on and tried to get myself together. It took around 6 months before I could go out with anyone else and have any hopes of forming a relationship. It all worked out however as I met my wife 4 years later, and I couldn't imagine myself being happier. Things happen for a reason, and when a girl breaks up with you, it usually means that it wouldn't have worked out.
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